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How to choose an engagement ring

An engagement ring is worn every day for many years, so a few things are worth thinking through before you choose: the shape of the diamond, how it is set, which kind of diamond and which gold. Here we go through them one at a time.

Large Toi et Moi Lab-Grown Diamond Ring

Start with the shape

The round brilliant is the classic shape and is cut to give plenty of sparkle. Oval and pear shapes can look a little larger than a round stone of the same weight and make the finger appear longer. An emerald cut has clean lines and a calmer, elegant look. Look at the jewellery they already wear: it often says more about their style than anything else.

The setting: look and everyday wear

In a prong setting, small claws hold the diamond, letting in plenty of light and showing off the stone. In a bezel setting, a rim of gold surrounds the stone, protecting it and giving a soft, modern look. A toi et moi ring has two stones side by side, one for each of you. Think about everyday life too: the higher the stone sits, the more it catches on clothes and gloves.

Natural or lab grown diamond

Both are real diamonds with the same hardness and brilliance. The difference is their origin, and lab grown diamonds are often lower in price for the same size and quality. At Cravingfor, a natural centre stone of 0.5 ct or more comes with a GIA certificate, and a lab grown centre stone of 0.5 ct or more comes with an IGI certificate. Read more in our guide to lab grown and natural diamonds.

Yellow, white or rose gold

All our engagement rings are made in 18 karat gold, which is 75 percent pure gold. Yellow gold feels warm and classic, white gold makes the diamond look especially bright and rose gold is soft and romantic. Choose the colour they wear most today, and keep in mind that the wedding ring is often matched to the engagement ring later on.

Size, viewing and timing

If you are unsure of the size, we will send a ring sizer to your home. If you would like to see the rings before deciding, you can book a private viewing. Every ring is made to order and ships within four weeks, so plan a little ahead. If you want something entirely your own, we will help you design the ring, from sketch to finished piece.

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